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The Problem with "Men Are the Worst"
I posed this question on Instagram after seeing multiple content creators (including a NYT piece) claim some variation of "men are the worst:"
What would a date be like with a man who thought that women were the worst?

Coach Rachel K
Aug 154 min read
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Three Tips For Dealing With Conflict Avoidance
I was conflict avoidant for most of my life. Within every romantic relationship, I did everything I could to avoid bringing up my hurt...

Coach Rachel K
Apr 154 min read
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Do I Need a Couples' Coach or a Therapist?
Finding the right kind of help is a step most people miss when they want to work on their relationship. Couples' therapy may seem like...

Coach Rachel K
Apr 112 min read
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what to do when your partner is upset
Something I've noticed in my own relationships and in my clients' relationships is that often, when our partner gets triggered, we get...

Coach Rachel K
Feb 63 min read
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A Guide to Dating After Divorce
A short guide to dating after divorce: the do's and don'ts of dating and how to avoid the pitfalls that lead to more heartache.

Coach Rachel K
Jan 214 min read
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new years intentions for your relationship
Happy New Year! I prefer relationship intentions over relationship resolutions for the new year. Intentions drive our spirit. Resolutions...

Coach Rachel K
Jan 22 min read
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The Four Phases of Relationships
With 2024 wrapping up and 2025 just a couple weeks away, I find myself reflecting on relationship goals. What does it mean to have goals...

Coach Rachel K
Dec 17, 20246 min read
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The Holiday Survival guide for relationships
Five tips to make the 2024 holiday season the best of your relationship!

Coach Rachel K
Nov 11, 20245 min read
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why non-attachment makes your relationship stronger
Cultivating non-attachment in dating and relationships gives us a sense of peace and empowerment. Learn how in this article.

Coach Rachel K
Nov 6, 20246 min read
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Having the same fight over and over again?
Are you having the same fight over and over? Repetitive conflict occurs when we're stuck. Learn why we get stuck and how to fix it!

Coach Rachel K
Oct 8, 20244 min read
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Three Tips for Relationship Shadow Work
Ready to dive into Shadow work? Don't miss these three tips to ensure you're getting the most out of this important technique!

Coach Rachel K
Oct 1, 20243 min read
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relationship habits for better connection
I don't know about you, but when autumn begins to set in, I feel a desire to reset. The crisper air asks for a crisper set of routines...

Coach Rachel K
Sep 10, 20243 min read
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three tips for election stress in your relationship
Chances are, you're noticing difficulty with concentrating and heightened anxiety as the election season draws on. When it comes to...

Coach Rachel K
Jul 23, 20243 min read
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questions to improve your relationship
One of the most overlooked and important aspects of long-term relationships is continually getting to know each other. I call this...

Coach Rachel K
Jul 18, 20242 min read
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How to be yourself in your relationship
Who are you? What values are central to your life satisfaction at this time? What boundaries are you unwilling to have crossed? What...

Coach Rachel K
Jun 27, 20242 min read
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a magical phrase to repair your relationships
I won't hold you in suspense. It's, "I can see how you'd feel that way." But let's dive into why, shall we? when we're triggered......

Coach Rachel K
Jun 13, 20243 min read
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Three tips for great first dates
First dates are notoriously a crapshoot, even when you've been chatting for a bit on an app. "Am I going to be bored? Or feel trapped?...

Coach Rachel K
May 27, 20244 min read
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what to expect after three months of dating...
After three months of dating (and sometimes less), couples find that they are exiting the Honeymoon Phase of their relationship....

Coach Rachel K
May 8, 20245 min read
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What is Emotional Hotness?
There was a time when we needed romantic relationships in order to survive. The family group was stronger than an individual could be....

Coach Rachel K
Apr 25, 20243 min read
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Find your unique relationship signature
If you're here, you care deeply about your personal growth and your romantic relationship. When we begin to understand the ways that we...

Coach Rachel K
Oct 3, 20237 min read
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