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The Problem With the High-Value Man/Woman Trend
Dating coaches and influencers love the concept of the high-value man or woman. If something feels off about it to you, read on for my breakdown and a more nuanced way to think about dating and relationships.

Coach Rachel K
Jun 257 min read
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How to Stop Falling For the Wrong People
Falling for the wrong people over and over again - oof. If you're caught in this dating loop, you're not alone. Most people looking for...

Coach Rachel K
May 205 min read
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Three Tips For Dealing With Conflict Avoidance
I was conflict avoidant for most of my life. Within every romantic relationship, I did everything I could to avoid bringing up my hurt...

Coach Rachel K
Apr 154 min read
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Do I Need a Couples' Coach or a Therapist?
Finding the right kind of help is a step most people miss when they want to work on their relationship. Couples' therapy may seem like...

Coach Rachel K
Apr 112 min read
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Feeling Stuck In Your Love Life?
I don't believe that feeling stuck is a sign that something is "wrong" with our love life. It's more that our soul is inviting us to step...

Coach Rachel K
Mar 203 min read
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How to Pick a Relationship Coach
Not sure how to go about picking a relationship coach? This post gives concrete tips on searching for someone qualified to help you!

Coach Rachel K
Mar 144 min read
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what to do when your partner is upset
Something I've noticed in my own relationships and in my clients' relationships is that often, when our partner gets triggered, we get...

Coach Rachel K
Feb 63 min read
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A Guide to Dating After Divorce
A short guide to dating after divorce: the do's and don'ts of dating and how to avoid the pitfalls that lead to more heartache.

Coach Rachel K
Jan 214 min read
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new years intentions for your relationship
Happy New Year! I prefer relationship intentions over relationship resolutions for the new year. Intentions drive our spirit. Resolutions...

Coach Rachel K
Jan 22 min read
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The Four Phases of Relationships
With 2024 wrapping up and 2025 just a couple weeks away, I find myself reflecting on relationship goals. What does it mean to have goals...

Coach Rachel K
Dec 17, 20246 min read
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how do you know if you've met the one?
So many Reddit threads, magazine articles, books, and podcasts are dedicated to this topic. When we're looking for love or we think we're...

Coach Rachel K
Dec 9, 20245 min read
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why non-attachment makes your relationship stronger
Cultivating non-attachment in dating and relationships gives us a sense of peace and empowerment. Learn how in this article.

Coach Rachel K
Nov 6, 20246 min read
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Understanding Your Relationship Triggers
Learn what relationship triggers are and how to use them to facilitate intimacy and growth in your relationship!

Coach Rachel K
Oct 30, 20242 min read
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Having the same fight over and over again?
Are you having the same fight over and over? Repetitive conflict occurs when we're stuck. Learn why we get stuck and how to fix it!

Coach Rachel K
Oct 8, 20244 min read
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Three Tips for Relationship Shadow Work
Ready to dive into Shadow work? Don't miss these three tips to ensure you're getting the most out of this important technique!

Coach Rachel K
Oct 1, 20243 min read
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relationship challenges in midlife
Struggling with relationship and dating challenges in midlife? This article is for you!

Coach Rachel K
Aug 11, 20243 min read
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questions to improve your relationship
One of the most overlooked and important aspects of long-term relationships is continually getting to know each other. I call this...

Coach Rachel K
Jul 18, 20242 min read
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How to be yourself in your relationship
Who are you? What values are central to your life satisfaction at this time? What boundaries are you unwilling to have crossed? What...

Coach Rachel K
Jun 27, 20242 min read
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a magical phrase to repair your relationships
I won't hold you in suspense. It's, "I can see how you'd feel that way." But let's dive into why, shall we? when we're triggered......

Coach Rachel K
Jun 13, 20243 min read
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Three tips for great first dates
First dates are notoriously a crapshoot, even when you've been chatting for a bit on an app. "Am I going to be bored? Or feel trapped?...

Coach Rachel K
May 27, 20244 min read
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