Why You Keep Ending Up in Situationships - and How to Break the Cycle

If you’ve ever found yourself deep into something that felt like a relationship… but somehow never became one, you’re not alone.

Coach Rachel K

8 hours ago3 min read

Am I Ready to Date After My Divorce?

How do we know we're ready to start dating again? Here are some considerations and journaling prompts!

Coach Rachel K

Nov 113 min read

The Problem With "Letting Him Lead"

Most trends I see in the dating world are misguided at best and potentially harmful at worst. But one dating and relationship trend...

Coach Rachel K

Sep 247 min read

Meeting Your Anima or Animus

Working with the archetypes of Anima and Animus is a big step in relationship and dating work.

Coach Rachel K

Sep 234 min read

The Problem with "Men Are the Worst"

I posed this question on Instagram after seeing multiple content creators (including a NYT piece) claim some variation of "men are the worst:" What would a date be like with a man who thought that women were the worst?

Coach Rachel K

Aug 154 min read

The Problem With the High-Value Man/Woman Trend

Dating coaches and influencers love the concept of the high-value man or woman. If something feels off about it to you, read on for my breakdown and a more nuanced way to think about dating and relationships.

Coach Rachel K

Jun 257 min read

How to Stop Falling For the Wrong People

Falling for the wrong people over and over again - oof. If you're caught in this dating loop, you're not alone. Most people looking for...

Coach Rachel K

May 205 min read

Three Tips For Dealing With Conflict Avoidance

I was conflict avoidant for most of my life. Within every romantic relationship, I did everything I could to avoid bringing up my hurt...

Coach Rachel K

Apr 154 min read

Do I Need a Couples' Coach or a Therapist?

Finding the right kind of help is a step most people miss when they want to work on their relationship. Couples' therapy may seem like...

Coach Rachel K

Apr 112 min read

Feeling Stuck In Your Love Life?

I don't believe that feeling stuck is a sign that something is "wrong" with our love life. It's more that our soul is inviting us to step...

Coach Rachel K

Mar 203 min read

A woman and man sit facing each other in a coaching session.

How to Pick a Relationship Coach

Not sure how to go about picking a relationship coach? This post gives concrete tips on searching for someone qualified to help you!

Coach Rachel K

Mar 144 min read

How to Work with Emotions in Relationship & Dating

The third Coaching Client series explores emotional integration, a necessary step for Shadow integration.

Coach Rachel K

Mar 124 min read

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Find Love After Divorce

Soul work keeps us from repeating the same relationship mistakes over and over. Soul work is what allows more love into our lives and breaks the patterns we inherited.

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