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The Problem With "Letting Him Lead"
Most trends I see in the dating world are misguided at best and potentially harmful at worst. But one dating and relationship trend...

Coach Rachel K
Sep 24, 20257 min read
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Meeting Your Anima or Animus
Working with the archetypes of Anima and Animus is a big step in relationship and dating work.

Coach Rachel K
Sep 23, 20254 min read
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The Problem With the High-Value Man/Woman Trend
Dating coaches and influencers love the concept of the high-value man or woman. If something feels off about it to you, read on for my breakdown and a more nuanced way to think about dating and relationships.

Coach Rachel K
Jun 25, 20257 min read
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How to Stop Falling For the Wrong People
Falling for the wrong people over and over again - oof. If you're caught in this dating loop, you're not alone. Most people looking for...

Coach Rachel K
May 20, 20255 min read
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Three Tips For Dealing With Conflict Avoidance
Conflict avoidance creates resentment over time. Here are three tips for overcoming conflict avoidance so you can connect!

Coach Rachel K
Apr 15, 20254 min read
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Feeling Stuck In Your Love Life?
I don't believe that feeling stuck is a sign that something is "wrong" with our love life. It's more that our soul is inviting us to step...

Coach Rachel K
Mar 20, 20253 min read
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How to Pick a Relationship Coach
Not sure how to go about picking a relationship coach? This post gives concrete tips on searching for someone qualified to help you!

Coach Rachel K
Mar 14, 20254 min read
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How to Work with Emotions in Relationship & Dating
The third Coaching Client series explores emotional integration, a necessary step for Shadow integration.

Coach Rachel K
Mar 12, 20254 min read
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what to do when your partner is upset
Something I've noticed in my own relationships and in my clients' relationships is that often, when our partner gets triggered, we get...

Coach Rachel K
Feb 6, 20253 min read
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A Guide to Dating After Divorce
A short guide to dating after divorce: the do's and don'ts of dating and how to avoid the pitfalls that lead to more heartache.

Coach Rachel K
Jan 21, 20254 min read
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The Four Phases of Relationships
With 2024 wrapping up and 2025 just a couple weeks away, I find myself reflecting on relationship goals. What does it mean to have goals...

Coach Rachel K
Dec 17, 20246 min read
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why non-attachment makes your relationship stronger
Cultivating non-attachment in dating and relationships gives us a sense of peace and empowerment. Learn how in this article.

Coach Rachel K
Nov 6, 20246 min read
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Intro to Jungian Coaching
Becoming empowered to create extraordinary love requires a shift in mindset and outlook. Instead of looking outside, we look within.

Coach Rachel K
Oct 28, 20244 min read
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Three Tips for Relationship Shadow Work
Ready to dive into Shadow work? Don't miss these three tips to ensure you're getting the most out of this important technique!

Coach Rachel K
Oct 1, 20243 min read
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relationship challenges in midlife
Struggling with relationship and dating challenges in midlife? This article is for you!

Coach Rachel K
Aug 11, 20243 min read
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How to be yourself in your relationship
Who are you? What values are central to your life satisfaction at this time? What boundaries are you unwilling to have crossed? What...

Coach Rachel K
Jun 27, 20242 min read
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a magical phrase to repair your relationships
I won't hold you in suspense. It's, "I can see how you'd feel that way." But let's dive into why, shall we? when we're triggered......

Coach Rachel K
Jun 13, 20243 min read
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what to expect after three months of dating...
After three months of dating (and sometimes less), couples find that they are exiting the Honeymoon Phase of their relationship. Honeymoon Phase Thinking about the other person all the time Prioritizing time with them over other aspects of life Seeing the other person in a golden light - they can do no wrong Sex likely at an all-time high Once the Honeymoon Phase winds down, a couple reaches the Triggered Phase, and this in turn leads to a series of decision-points that make

Coach Rachel K
May 8, 20245 min read
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Find your unique relationship signature
If you're here, you care deeply about your personal growth and your romantic relationship. When we begin to understand the ways that we...

Coach Rachel K
Oct 3, 20237 min read
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Aren't triggers in my relationship bad?
We've been sold this fairy tale of relationships where a couple who is fighting, in disagreement, or disconnected from each other is not...

Coach Rachel K
Aug 30, 20233 min read
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