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How to be yourself in your relationship
Who are you? What values are central to your life satisfaction at this time? What boundaries are you unwilling to have crossed? What...

Coach Rachel K
Jun 27, 20242 min read
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a magical phrase to repair your relationships
I won't hold you in suspense. It's, "I can see how you'd feel that way." But let's dive into why, shall we? when we're triggered......

Coach Rachel K
Jun 13, 20243 min read
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Three tips for great first dates
First dates are notoriously a crapshoot, even when you've been chatting for a bit on an app. "Am I going to be bored? Or feel trapped?...

Coach Rachel K
May 27, 20244 min read
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what to expect after three months of dating...
After three months of dating (and sometimes less), couples find that they are exiting the Honeymoon Phase of their relationship. Honeymoon Phase Thinking about the other person all the time Prioritizing time with them over other aspects of life Seeing the other person in a golden light - they can do no wrong Sex likely at an all-time high Once the Honeymoon Phase winds down, a couple reaches the Triggered Phase, and this in turn leads to a series of decision-points that make

Coach Rachel K
May 8, 20244 min read
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What is Emotional Hotness?
There was a time when we needed romantic relationships in order to survive. The family group was stronger than an individual could be....

Coach Rachel K
Apr 25, 20243 min read
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Find your unique relationship signature
If you're here, you care deeply about your personal growth and your romantic relationship. When we begin to understand the ways that we...

Coach Rachel K
Oct 3, 20237 min read
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Aren't triggers in my relationship bad?
We've been sold this fairy tale of relationships where a couple who is fighting, in disagreement, or disconnected from each other is not...

Coach Rachel K
Aug 30, 20233 min read
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How regulation improves relationships
Nervous system regulation is a hot topic these days, and for good reason. For many years, we've believed that the mind and body are...

Coach Rachel K
Feb 23, 20236 min read
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